10 Signs You’re In A Healthy Relationship

1. You give each other personal space.

Healthy couples naturally spend a lot of time together. But they also recognize the importance of doing things separately. Personal space is important in any relationship. We all need time to explore, reflect, and express ourselves individually.
2. You trust each other.
Great relationships are built on a foundation of trust. Think about a bad relationship you or a friend has been in. Chances are, there were trust issues. Trusting your partner is vital, and it takes time to build. And this just happen to coincide with our next sign you’re in a healthy relationship:
3. You don’t rush milestones.
Couples in healthy relationships recognize that the best things in life are worth waiting for. That’s why they don’t rush important life milestones. They savor every moment of building a life together and take the time to celebrate the important occasions in life.
4. You can talk about anything.
Healthy couples tell each other everything. Speaking your mind can be incredibly difficult at times, but people in healthy relationships don’t hold back–even when the truth hurts.
5. You inspire each other to be better.
Healthy relationships are also built on mutual motivation and inspiration. Your partner should inspire you to be your best self, to face difficult challenges, and to change the world. Those in unhealthy relationships are content with mediocrity.
6. You appreciate the little things.
Life’s most beautiful moments often sneak up on us and catch us off-guard. Healthy couples recognize and appreciate these moments when they occur. They know the small, seemingly insignificant moments are what makes life worth sharing.
7. You accept each other for who you are.
People in healthy relationships accept each other, flaws and all. This doesn’t mean you should encourage your significant other to accept mediocrity. It does, however, mean you should accept who your partner chooses to be. Remember, there are cracks in everything, but that’s how the light gets in.
8. You hold each other up during tough times.
Life will throw you lemons every now and then. It’s inevitable. A tell-tale sign of a healthy relationship is how you support each other during these trying times. Don’t be afraid to cry together and experience pain and suffering. Tragic events often take our breath away and make us feel like the world around us is caving in. But the fact that you’re still here means you have a 100 percent success rate with overcoming tough times.
9. You’re able to let go of the past.
People in healthy relationships know that failure and mistakes are nothing but pathways to attainment. They don’t let past stumbles dictate their current relationship. We can be hurtful creatures at times. But as long as we use these moments to grow and learn, our relationships can become stronger. This leads into our final sign you’re in a healthy relationship:
10. Your relationship has gotten stronger over time.
The ultimate sign of a relationship that’s sustainable for the long-term is that it slowly builds, developing deeper roots with each passing year. There are lots of things that help make this happen (see above). I think most importantly, people in healthy relationships take the time to say (and mean) the following words often:
1.   I love you.
2.   Thank you.
3.   I’m sorry.


# I found that it is true.. 
     I will give him personal space,  I trust him, I don't rush milestones,
 I can talk anything to him,
We inspire each other to be better,
I appreciate the little things that you do
(waking me up, cook for me, listen to all my complain, accompany me when I'm having traffic jam on the road, and ..........)
Other than that, I also accept who you are
( lan lek sometimes ^^) ,
We hold each other during hard time,
I'm able to let go of the past
( those times when we have cold war)
And lastly our relationship is getting stronger over time! Most importantly what makes us have a healthy relationship is we do
always say I love you, thank you and sorry to each other.

崩溃

最近转大学了
非常的不适应
还哭了几次
与家人也缺乏沟通
因为他们都不 能站在我的立场想想
没次的谈话中都带有压力
我真的很辛苦
 又有谁会懂呢

#114

今天太过无聊了
log in 了一个账号 在微薄
nickname 叫 ChloeCheng舒晴
大家可以加我哦
其实是开爽罢了
进到去也不懂要做什么
就上传了自己的照片
然后随便按了按
发现一些关于星座的


十二星座综合实力排行
第一名:天蝎座第二名:摩蝎座第三名:水瓶座
第四名:就是我啦,狮子座


理由:狮子座是很有异性缘,很有魅力的星座。但是有时总是显得有点大女人和大男人。不太懂得屈服和退让之道。狮子也是很勤奋,很努力,却容易和别人起冲突。狮子在恋爱的时候要会把握分寸才不会让自己受伤,不能一爱到底,太过依赖。狮子要知道,有时候给别人退路就是给自己退路。狮子座其实也很聪明,但是比起前三名确实逊色了点。主要是狮子座容易聪明反被聪明误。狮子要学习前三名的低调做人,这样才能思路清晰。 

#113

are you wondering how the cold war goes
uhmmm.. it is not good at all
we talk less and im not that happy during that few days 
luckily i had someone to talk to (suipo)
thank you for listening me and giving me comfort when im nt that well
I love you and we are bff
so now 
#dont want to put too much hope on him, let it be like what it is at the beginning  
#focus on studies!!!
#start to appreciate those friends who are there for me when i screw up
#disappointed for those who we call as a gang of buddies but when you need them urgently they are not there with you.

#112

I dont know what's wrong with me
suddenly just feel like letting go him
I don't want anything from him
I declared a cold war with him Today.

#although it is not all i want.
#22th May 2013

#111

谢舒晴
你还在梦游吗
已经一个多月了
你和以前有改到吗?!!
还不是一样 一直和朋友 往外跑!
是想要在 fail 吗 
猪头啊? 很想被调回怡保读对吗?!!
你 “记得” 你答应过父母什么 吗?!!
尽然 你 承诺 过 就要下定决心 用功读书了
你没 别人天才 一读就会 所以 你现在在干嘛?!!
Facebook? Twitter? Instagram? 
再这样 就连我自己也看不起你了

#110

This afternoon went badminton with ooi, mun how, david chooi, shawn, and new their friends( Velie and ??)
Ooi and Shawn so geng ! bei ooi pian le. he fang shui when playing with me. LOL
#sweat #rachel's racket #3-5.30pm #Rec Hall #tired #happy 

#109

Afternoon went campus exercise with Anni, Leslie, and Brian !
Night went beach republic bbq with Brandon, YingJia and some new friends !