1. You give each other personal space.
Healthy couples
naturally spend a lot of time together. But they also recognize the importance
of doing things separately. Personal space is important in any relationship. We
all need time to explore, reflect, and express ourselves individually.
2. You
trust each other.
Great relationships
are built on a foundation of trust. Think about a bad relationship you or a
friend has been in. Chances are, there were trust issues. Trusting your partner
is vital, and it takes time to build. And this just happen to coincide with our
next sign you’re in a healthy relationship:
3. You
don’t rush milestones.
Couples in healthy
relationships recognize that the best things in life are worth waiting for.
That’s why they don’t rush important life milestones. They savor every moment
of building a life together and take the time to celebrate the important
occasions in life.
4. You
can talk about anything.
Healthy couples tell
each other everything. Speaking your mind can be incredibly difficult at times,
but people in healthy relationships don’t hold back–even when the truth hurts.
5. You
inspire each other to be better.
Healthy relationships
are also built on mutual motivation and inspiration. Your partner should
inspire you to be your best
self, to face difficult challenges, and to change the world. Those
in unhealthy relationships are content with mediocrity.
6. You
appreciate the little things.
Life’s most beautiful
moments often sneak up on us and catch us off-guard. Healthy couples recognize
and appreciate these moments when they occur. They know the small, seemingly
insignificant moments are what makes life worth sharing.
7. You
accept each other for who you are.
People in healthy
relationships accept each other, flaws and all. This doesn’t mean you should
encourage your significant other to accept mediocrity. It does, however, mean
you should accept who your partner chooses to be. Remember, there are cracks in
everything, but that’s how the light gets in.
8. You
hold each other up during tough times.
Life will throw you
lemons every now and then. It’s inevitable. A tell-tale sign of a healthy
relationship is how you support each other during these trying times. Don’t be
afraid to cry together and experience pain and suffering. Tragic events often
take our breath away and make us feel like the world around us is caving in.
But the fact that you’re still here means you have a 100 percent success rate
with overcoming tough times.
9.
You’re able to let go of the past.
People in healthy
relationships know that failure and
mistakes are nothing but pathways to attainment. They don’t let
past stumbles dictate their current relationship. We can be hurtful creatures
at times. But as long as we use these moments to grow and learn, our
relationships can become stronger. This leads into our final sign you’re in a
healthy relationship:
10.
Your relationship has gotten stronger over time.
The ultimate sign of a
relationship that’s sustainable for the long-term is that it slowly builds,
developing deeper roots with each passing year. There are lots of things that
help make this happen (see above). I think most importantly, people in healthy
relationships take the time to say (and mean) the following words often:
1. I love you.
2. Thank you.
3. I’m sorry.
# I found that it is true..
I will give him personal space, I trust him, I don't rush milestones,
I can talk anything to him,
We inspire each other to be better,
I appreciate the little things that you do (waking me up, cook for me, listen to all my complain, accompany me when I'm having traffic jam on the road, and ..........)
Other than that, I also accept who you are ( lan lek sometimes ^^) ,
We hold each other during hard time,
I'm able to let go of the past ( those times when we have cold war)
And lastly our relationship is getting stronger over time! Most importantly what makes us have a healthy relationship is we do always say I love you, thank you and sorry to each other.
I can talk anything to him,
We inspire each other to be better,
I appreciate the little things that you do (waking me up, cook for me, listen to all my complain, accompany me when I'm having traffic jam on the road, and ..........)
Other than that, I also accept who you are ( lan lek sometimes ^^) ,
We hold each other during hard time,
I'm able to let go of the past ( those times when we have cold war)
And lastly our relationship is getting stronger over time! Most importantly what makes us have a healthy relationship is we do always say I love you, thank you and sorry to each other.
